Boyfriends Crazy Mom

Please help me, my boyfriends mom is crazy and I don’t know what to do.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5, almost six, months. We’re both in high school, he’s a senior and I’m a sophomore. At first everything was fine with his mom but I recently came to fine out that she really doesn’t like me, because I’m white most likely, and she didn’t want my boyfriend to ask me to prom because she was worried “ I would ruin HER prom photos”.

I went away to Disney on a school trip and the night I got back he tried to sneak out and come see me and set off the alarm. He almost got shot by his step dad. So she calls me at 11 at night and accuses me of inviting him over.( I had no idea he was trying to come see me so wth) His punishment was not being allowed to see me and having his phone taken away, pretty fair if you ask me. Then she found what she thinks is a condom wrapper on the ground, which could be from her older step sons, and freaks out on him. She throws his phone at a wall, breaks it, beats tf outta him and tell him I can’t go to prom with him. After this mother tried to pick out a dress for me for prom, so “I could look nice”. And I already spent nearly 300 dollars to match HIS outfit. She implied that I’m a slut over texts with my mother and proceeded to be a bitch over text. And won’t even let him say my name in the house.

She wants him to have a good prom because she had a terrible prom experience and now she’s using it as leverage to get her way. A milestone in her sons life is turning into a punishment just so SHE can GET HER WAY. I’ve sadly considered breaking up with my boyfriend because I don’t want to deal with him mom anymore but I truly love him. Since I found out I have been sick to my stomach because I’m upset. I have done nothing to this women and she is dining everything in her power to drive us apart and it’s killing me. I don’t know what to do.

Please help someone.