😣😣 over due, now what’s going on? 40+1

I went to l&d yesterday bc I started getting crampy in my lower stomach and back. I went in, they checked me two times and I was at 1 cm both times. The cervical check hurt pretty bad and made me bleed a little bit. They ended up sending me home and I’ve been in pain all night. Them checking me made the cramps worse. Now everytime I use the bathroom and wipe, this is what’s there everytime. Is this my bloody show, or is this from my cervix being irritated and from them checking it? 40+1 also cramps are gone away, like what the hell 😔😣