So right now Im 38 weeks pregnant and we are currently having to stay with my husbands parents until we are finished moving. At first I didn’t mind it but shit is just getting out of hand. We have a three year old already and I swear my mother in law just doesn’t know when to back the hell off. My child does not like people getting in her face and when she’s not in a mood to play, she’s not in a mood to play. It’s simple. But she doesn’t give ANY of us breathing room. She literally gets pissy when my child wants to cuddle with me or play with me or my husband. When me and my husband try to have simple conversations about anything she will listen in and she constantly butts in, and sometimes it’s private things. Like she’ll even hide around the corner just to listen in. And another thing she does is snoop!! I understand it’s her house but she has this habit of going through my things. She literally went through my hospital bag for no reason. Left it unzipped and stuff was all jostled up and half hanging out the bag. I was livid. It’s like she takes any chance she can to snoop and it drives me nuts. At this point i am very freaking pregnant and yes I am exhausted half the time, but it’s always comments about me napping or trying to sleep in. Excuse me if my kid stays up till one in the morning and I am up all night with her and the next day I’m drained. My husband works all the time so it’s just me and my little girl with his family allll the time. They act like I don’t need to go anywhere or do anything without them breathing down my neck and it has nothing to do with being worried I’ll go into labor or need help, it’s just being controlling. My mil literally got pissed off because i wanted to go to the dollar store and pick up some snacks. And then one time, she got pissed because we took a day trip to go see my mom and family. She threw a huge ass fit and would not speak to me. It’s insane. She gets mad when I share my time with anyone besides her and when things don’t go her way. And I swear these people stay sick constantly and it makes me go crazy. She also doesn’t keep a clean house and I can’t stand it. I offer to help and do things but there’s just no help for this place it’s so gross. One other thing is how racist my fil is. He loves throwing around the N word. It boils my blood every time. They get onto my husband for saying small curse words but saying the N word and racial slurs around a 3 yr old is ok?? Nope. We have told him many times to not say it and he does it anyways. We are not a racist family and I’ll be damned if she picks up those words from these people!! Id rather my kid pick up “shit” or “damn” then racial language. It’s such a shame and it makes me sick. Today I talked to my husband about going to stay with my mom instead and having the baby where she lives and at first he was all “yeah whatever you think is best” and now he’s trying to convince me to stay here. I can’t take it anymore. I’m not bringing a newborn “home” to a dirty and sick household where I can’t get into a routine and do my job as a mom. I’m losing my mind and getting depressed and angry. I hate being here and I don’t understand why my husband can’t see that. I explain it to him but he acts like I’m breaking his heart by going to stay with my mom. He’s going to be working out of town when the baby is born anyways so I’m really not wanting to be stuck with them. I love my husband and I hate not being with him but in a day or two I’m leaving. I refuse to have this baby here and keep dealing with all the bullshit that’s been going on. By the end of this week I will be back at my moms and that’s it. I’m going to lose my shit if I have to deal with one more thing. I know this post is all over the place but I just needed to get this all out before I scream.