Dear Anonymous,

Next time your friend goes thru a miscarriage and she calls you to let you know the devastating news, please don’t respond with “Oh, well maybe you can’t have anymore kids.” To that same friend when you knew your friend was struggling with infertility and had been trying to conceive for the last 3 years and experienced a loss, please be careful how you approach that person with your next pregnancy announcement. It was really hurtful for you to call me, the minute you got your positive as I got to hear the thrill in your voice and breath and then compare yourself to me saying how you thought I would’ve been pregnant by now considering I had been tracking my cycles and you didn’t try anything special to conceive. Thanks for letting me know I was the first one to know about your pregnancy before anybody else, even tho I wish I would’ve been the last one to know. I wish you were more sensitive towards other people’s feelings.