Do you Christians/believers in general make anyone else afraid to mention tragedy?

This whole pregnancy I've been afraid that after I announced, if something happened to my baby I would have to deal with a thousand comments about how my daughter is with Jesus or this is God's plan or some other shit, I feel like if something bad happens I have to put a disclaimer like "don't use your religion to try to make me feel better, it will only anger me." 🙄 Thankfully 30wks now and less concerned but it makes me cringe when people have to put in their 2 cents about God when something bad happens to someone