Is it wrong??

Question

My husband does not like eating me out, but I LOVE to be eaten out. It’s been a long time since I have been. He and I are both awful at getting the laundry done due to working a lot. He told me that on my last day off if I got all of the laundry done and wasn’t on my period he would eat me out. I was super excited and so I got all the laundry washed, folded, and put away. Tonight he said if I shower before he will eat me out. I really want this, but I kind of feel bad about it. I kinda feel like I’m using or abusing him. Should I just let him eat me out or tell him to forget it?

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Using and abusing him how? By doing chores he told you to do in lieu of sexual favors? If my husband ever said “do the laundry/take a shower and I’ll eat you out” I’m a serious manner, as a prize for doing something, I’d punch him. 
A marriage and sexual relationship is about both of you. Sharing intimacy, giving and receiving pleasure- it’s a two way street. Being on the same page about your needs and wants is a must in a relationship. It’s just as important as any other factor, did you two discuss this premarriage? Compromise is important in a relationship/marriage. Whatever is the reason he doesn’t want to do it you need to openly discuss it, and find a common ground. Maybe toys that simulate oral? Other types of toys.

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I'd say that's extremely manilulative on his part. That's wrong of him, you aren't cinderella.

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Umm seems to me he’s using that to get house chores done lol I don’t see how you’re using and abusing him.

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It’s funny how men can be so hesitant or scared to give oral on us, but they looove it when when we do it to them lol. It’s intimidating for some guys and maybe he’s had a bad experience with it in the past or something. I’m definitely one who wants to shower first, but my boyfriend will just want to 69 whenever and I turn him down a lot lol. So I get both sides. Maybe he’s just anxious because he’s not experienced? Don’t give up. Nobody can get comfortable with something if they don’t try and it’s a good sign that he wants to try! I can totally understand why you feel bad though, but don’t! Just go with the flow and coach him through it!

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Just think of it this way......how would he like it if the roles were reverse? If you offered to give him head only if he did chores and showered etc? (Though I do understand making sure you're washed, that's just polite lol). 
A previous boyfriend of mine didn't like doing it, so I didn't go down on him. As someone else said, it's a 2 way thing. I never used to like giving head, but if I was receiving it I'd do it occasionally. With my fiance though, I love to when in the mood, and he's always "hungry" as he politely puts it 😂 everyone's different, but why does he hate doing it if it gives you so much pleasure? Maybe he thinks he's not good at it? I dunno lol. Xxx

Is it wrong??

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