Married just over a month. My husband set up strict boundaries when we were dating. Now that we’re married he is having trouble breaking those boundaries. He never initiates sex and will sometimes turn me down. He has never gone down on me. I brought it up before but it only makes him feel bad because he “just doesn’t want to” and he doesn’t know why. He doesn’t want to go to have his testosterone levels checked. It’s only been a 5 weeks and the more time that passes I struggle with feeling undesired. He’s a great guy and knows that this lack of desire is odd, but he doesn’t want to think much about it and tends to sweep it under the carpet after acknowledging and affirming the origin of my hurt and frustration. I’ve been praying and I think that is the best thing I can do right now. Just needed to vent since I really can’t talk to anyone about this. If anyone has had a similar experience I would love to hear about it and if there’s hope for the future.