I was previously in a 12 year relationship with the father of my children and we split over a year ago. In that interim I’ve been with a few people and no one has ever made me orgasm thru penetration not even my past 12 year relationship. I’m only ever able to orgasm with oral. It’s never been an issue with anyone else nor did anyone else ever question it. I’ve been in a serious relationship and now it’s an issue, it bothers him that i don’t orgasm with vaginal penetration only oral. And it’s fella like I’m about to but then i just don’t the sex is amazing and at one point i feel like i have to pee but it feels amazing but that’s it no real orgasm.