At my wits end 😞

I’m tired of buying diapers, I’m tired of stressing it to her. I’m tired of going to the doctors just to be told “it’s nothing to worry about til she turns 8” welp... my daughter is turning 8 in August and still wets the bed like a little kid! She’s so big for her age she doesn’t fit in size XL diapers. To give you an idea on how big she is - she wears a size 14 in clothes and weighs 108 lbs. she’s a tall girl too. My mom started buying her adult depends and she still pees through those. I don’t know what to do anymore 😞😭 I want to have more kids but I’m still buying my daughter diapers every two weeks. I’ve tried waking her up in the middle of the night. Sometimes, she’ll go to bed at 8:30 and less than two hours later, when I go check on her, she’s wet. I’m so stressed 😭

Please, any advice/suggestions would be helpful. Has anyone gone through this?

When I’ve gone to her doctors (multiple times) for this issue. They give me recommendations that I’ve already tried. She stops drinking 2 hours prior to bedtime and they’ve asked me if I can’t afford diapers.. (excuse my language but) bitch that’s not the fucking problem. I’m tired of my 7 year old daughter soaking her bed every. single. flippin. night.

She also uses a waterproof mattress cover.. she still gets urine stains on her mattress though...

UPDATE: thank you so much to everyone that responded. One person commented constipation and my daughter is not constipated. I make sure and always double check with her that she has gone at least once a day. But I think I know What the problem may be. I’ve always suspected sleep apnea and just recently I saw her tonsils and they were HUGE. Once I talk to her doctor and go through the process of (hopefully) a tonsillectomy and sleep apnea studies there will be no more bed wetting. But if there is..... just four more years 🤷🏻‍♀️ I know it won’t be like this forever but it’s stressful as of right now. We always gotta prepare for road trips when we go visit family. She has a lot of cousins between the ages of 5-12 and she’s unfortunately the only one with these problems the other girls don’t and I know she’s embarrassed of it. Cause if she urinated a lot the night before she has a huge bulge in the morning and her cousins look at her a little confused.. and the smell of urine is so strong 😞