Help....

So I told my siblings that I’m expecting.

My brother won’t come for my due date, even though it will be around Christmas and he can get the time off. His reaction was saying congrats and moving on to something else.

My sister can’t have kids. Her reaction was oh cool, just don’t get to excited because your not that far along. Don’t be surprised if you miscarry.

I don’t know how my siblings can be that ignorant and react that way. I don’t know if I should involve them or try to involve them in baby shower/ultrasound photos etc. I don’t know if I should tell them that their reaction bothered me....

Need some positivity.