How long does your husband take to get ready for an outing ?

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Hey y’all, so I just want to clarify that my husband is been like this since the beginning is not something he has started to do. It bothers me because I feel no man should take longer than his wife to get ready. Supposedly it’s them waiting on us, not the other way around lol. I’m not bashing him in any way just curious why he would take so long, I have asked him playfully before what he’s been doing there for so long and he’s like I was showering, or I was brushing my hair. And I’m like how does it take you 40 mins to brush your hair alone ? Like he will take more than an hour to be ready for an outing. I always have to wait on him. I even take naps while he’s getting ready, and then wake up get myself ready and he’s still not ready 🤔 what should i do??

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What do you mean what should you do? Why do you need to do something?
The only thing I can think of that you should do is just let him be himself and let it go.

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This always baffles me too. I feel like my husband takes forever to be ready to leave the house when we are going somewhere. We are always late 🤣 its more funny to me though and I always call him out. When its just me going somewhere I’m always early

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My SO doesn’t take that long but I have friends and even my brother who seem to take forever to get ready! But that’s their choice, so instead of trying to change their habits, I just tell them we’re meeting/leaving a little earlier than we actually are to make sure we’re not late 😏😂

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My huband takes forever. I just tell him that we are due somewhere 30 minutes earlier than we actually are and watch Netflix.

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This is also my husband!!! He has been like this since ever! He takes great pride in his looks. He irons his clothes takes a hour to shower does his hair, shaves for over 30mins making sure all is perfect.  Drives me insane! But he also looks so handsome after lol. He takes about 2hrs from start to finish. I take  hr tops. That's if I need to wash my hair. He also takes super good care of his clothes, and he absolutely loves to shop! I hate to shop unless its food shopping lmfao! He is more like the girl in some things but he is far from gay haha!! The whole women take longer to get ready is such a stereotype!

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You shouldn't do anything?

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My husband takes about 50 minutes. He showers, shaves, brushes his teeth, gets dressed and sprays some cologne. 
There is nothing wrong with taking your time getting ready. It takes me a little over an hour which is why we get ready early. 
It’s not a big deal. Let it go.

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My bf wakes up and grabs his hairdryer and blows hot air under his shirt to warm up for like 5 mins. Then stares at his phone for like 15. Then he goes and smokes a bowl. Comes back inside and makes coffee and then goes and smokes another bowl. Comes back in and then goes to the bathroom for like... 25 mins. Then goes and smokes another bowl and then goes back to the hair dryer. And then either picks up his acousic guitar, or the harmonica, and fucking annoys me for like 5 mins RIGHT WHILE IM DOING LIQUID EYELINER. then he is finally getting dressed. Then he smokes another bowl. Comes back in the house pours his coffee, packs his work bag, brushes his teeth, sprays on cologne, puts on his work boots, curses on about having to go to work... and by this time i have been waiting now about 15 minutes and started helping him pack his things.
He always takes way longer than me. I don’t need anybody to tell me what to do.

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Do nothing? So what he takes a while, at least he's getting ready? Does he make you late when you're going places? That's probably the only thing that would bother me. If so I'd just tell him to start earlier.
I mean it could be worse. He could be like my husband and decide right before we leave that it's the perfect time to poop. Like why always right before we leave?!?!

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Maybe he’s pooping

How long does your husband take to get ready for an outing ?

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