Should I tell mom?

Question

Ok I’m 15 and I’m dating a 16 year old guy that my parents really seem to like. Before I dated him I lost my vCard to a 17 year old one night stand and my parents know that and were nottt happy. I go to parties almost every weekend and my mom is ok with me drinking and stuff if I do it safely and tell her first, bc teens tend to do that. I have had sex with my bf 3 times but my parents don’t know and my mom asked me if I needed to be put on the pill but then was like no wait a few more months actually (even tho it had already happened....) I want to tell her but I’m scared to... what should I do?

Accepted Answer

Go on the pill ASAP 
You don’t have to tell her you’ve already had sex 
But tell her you want to be on it so that when the time comes you’re already protected!

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She obviously knows you’re having sex or going to be having sex in the near future if she asks about birth control.

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Are we not going to address the fact that shes 15. and her parents are perfectly fine with her consuming alcohol?

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Oh my gosh get on the pill ASAP!!! You don’t have to tell her you’ve been having sex but that way you’re ready when you start having sex or something like that. Please don’t risk having sex without bc until you’re ready to be a parent

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I would tell her. Your mom sounds supportive and cool... she seems open and just wants you to be safe. Tell her that you would like to get on the pill so that you’re ready for when you do decide to have sex. You don’t have to tell her that you’ve already done it with your new boyfriend.

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From what you are describing you have a generally open and honest relationship with your parents and even when they don't approve of your choices they will still accept them. I think they are just concerned and want you to be safe. So yes, I would tall to them, tell them the truth, and get on the pill. Keep in mind though that the pill does not protect you from STD's so still use a condom in addition to the pill!

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if you’re 15 and you’re allowed to drink. go on the pill

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Tell her

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TELL YOUR MOM!! If you’re afraid about her judging you or worrying you’re having sex just tell her you want to use it to skip your period (because you can use the pill to skip periods) and she’ll be more open to that

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Get on the pill and stop drinking and going to those parties. Your brain is still developing and your messing it up. Plus because your brains are still developing, your peers can not make proper judgement calls. Dangerous things are much more likely to happen when kids drink. Find some friends who don't socialize that way.

Should I tell mom?

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