Birth with toddler being home?

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So obviously when I have this baby in July, my son will be home with my parents. My husband will be home overnight with him and in the morning. He just turned 2 and requires a lot of specific things due to having a speech delay and being a problem feeder. (Like medication and such.) So I need to leave a detailed day to day schedule. But what all should be included in this? I’m having a hard time finding a good example online. Obviously nap and meal times, and his speech therapy, feeding therapy, and all of his appointments. But what else? Ways to calm him down? What to do if he’s cranky? Bed time routine? We are expecting to be in the hospital for 4 days but I’m already panicking. 😅