So we currently live with my husbands family we are moving next week to our apartment but he’s sisters have always have the worst attitude towards their mom and anyone that try’s to tell them anything there ages are 11 and 14 they always have to be told to pick up their mess but they always ALWAYS had to be rude about it and I’m not working at the moment because we have a 6 month old and We don’t feel comfortable taking him to a daycare so I always end up cleaning after them because I am a clean freak and I hate it I try to tell them something cuz I did talk to my mother in-law about being able to discipline them and she said go for it so I’ve been trying and they always give attitude especially the 11 year old and I just can’t anymore Even my husband and their mom have talked to them about listening to me and still nothing I get so aggravated and I want to explode what do I do!!??