I'm at a loss in our relationship

I really don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm constantly dealing with the same stress because nothing improves. I feel like whenever I can't take anymore, I just have to keep going. I love my man to death but his own depression is getting in the way of our lives moving forward. I've been asking him for weeks to help me get rid of furniture and clean so we can get ready for the baby. He's been at the same restaurant job for over 2 years, he hates it but doesn't make much effort to find something else. Lately he gets a little too drunk and I'm scared I'll have to face a drinking problem with him in the future. I've been so open about what I need and expect from him but it doesn't seem to make any difference. I want things to work out but I can't live a stagnant life with him. I've thought about trying to go stay with family or friends to open his eyes.