So I have a family member who I was discussing Mother’s Day with and said that all these pregnancy announcements I’m seeing from people I know are hitting hard just a bit since I miscarried in January and would’ve had a baby in my arms this September. I’ve accepted it and we’re trying again but either way that’s just one of those things that the hurt never really goes away. Anyway, when I said this she got very hateful with me telling me that she didn’t want to hear it because she’s about to have a hysterectomy and her SO just told her he wants another baby and very rudely said “at least you can still have kids” They have an almost 9 month old and an almost 5 year old so I mean, while I understand her pain at least they have two kids, which is a lot more than some people get.

I feel like she invalidated my feelings and I’m just wondering if I’m wrong in feeling like I do.

I didn’t say anything because I hate confrontation and I just don’t find it worth the fight.

I don’t even know if I posted this in a good place just because I always post here lol