Crowding Husband

I love my husband to death but he is soooo crowding. I mean like I wake up and he’s in my face and I literally hate the world when I wake up every morning and he knows this so I don’t get it. And he texts me while he’s at work constantly and I like that he’s thinking of me but I’m busy with cleaning or the baby and if I don’t respond immediately he starts yelling at me through the cameras in the house to answer his text. Oh and he watches everything I do at home on the cameras while he is at work which is fine I have nothing to hide obviously but then he texts asking me what I’m doing and if I don’t say exactly what I’m doing he says yea right I watched you do xyz on the camera. I’m like wtf. Really? Like those are there to make me safer at home not like I don’t want to be in my own home. It might not seem annoying but I can’t even call my mom on the phone to gossip cause he starts talking to me through the camera and tries to get in the middle of the conversation. He’s not jealous or accuses me of cheating or anything like that but he’s always all up in my personal space. And he gets so upset when I travel to see my family, which he could come with, and I’m never gone but a few days and a handful of times out of the year. I don’t get why he gets so upset at me. And then when I come home he asks me if I still want to be with him and stuff and I’m like wtf.. the biggest thing though is I planned a trip with my mom and the girls for her bday like I’ve been planning this for 6 months and he keeps trying to force his way into the trip and I just don’t get it. He’s not going to have fun, he don’t like going to anything without men around. I try to encourage him to go do his own things and hang out with the guys like go have a beer and calm down goodness. But he doesn’t care to... I tell him I need space and time away from him so that I can have a chance to miss him and he thinks that is ‘code for something else’ like I just don’t want him around or something. I so don’t understand it. He used to not be this way at all.