Husband

My husband will kiss my belly and tell the baby boy he loves him then will say he feels gay for kissing him. He has also mentioned we should just stick the baby in his own room and let him cry it out. Something we never did or wanted to do with our daughter. He said a girl is cuter to have. He’s said it’s more sad if a woman is murdered than a man. He has only shown that he will not care about this boy as much as he did our daughter. I’m in shock every time he “jokingly” makes these comments. I ask “what’s wrong with you” I am now in tears over it and he says I’m over reacting. Help.