Asking for a friend

So this topic is a little debatable. I think she’s fine her sister is screaming neglect and I would love to help her today but my day is VERY busy. Anyways. So my homegirl has been having problems with her children. They’re close in age with mine aside from her 5 year old. So yea, I do see where her frustration is coming from.

It’s been a few days and she hasn’t slept on top of being already sick. She was saying how every time they made a sound her eyes pop open and that she missed being a heavy sleeper. I told her to make sure the kids were straight and separate herself so she can rest💁🏽‍♀️ HOWEVER, her sister disagreed completely, saying that she can’t just let them sit there even if they aren’t crying😪

Me personally, if they’ve been fed, burped, changed, and not in harms way, they can cry🤷🏽‍♀️ so I don’t see a problem with my friend taking the day to herself as long as she makes sure to feed and change them at appropriate times.

Is there any other advice or feedback I can give her?