Would you feel offended?

Question

Ok so this is my third baby I’m 10 weeks along and I am clearly showing very fast. I know myself my belly is big but I’m fine with it. I’m embracing my pregnancy body. Now my husbands grandmother and great aunt keep commenting on how “big” I am. First couple of times I just explained you know this is my third baby and my uterus has been previously stretched out to it’s max capacity TWICE and let it go. But now that it’s becoming a more common subject for them to bring up I’m beginning to get defense and quite frankly pissed off. Like I’m sorry what size would you like me to be while pregnant??!!?? SO RUDE AND HURTFUL

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This has happened to me too, baby 3. Joke is, I’m smaller than all my other pregnancies at this stage 😂. People like to stick their foot in their mouths for no good reason. I just walk away and say mmmhhmmm yep that’s not rude at all 🤷‍♀️! People usually quiet down quickly.

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I’m on my third, and 21w4d and my coworker said I look really big this time knowing damn well she is bigger than I am it was still rude to say. I know I’m bigger but my son isn’t even a year old yet. He just got out so I feel like I’m getting bigger sooner evause if that.

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Third baby and people regularly comment on how big my bump is.  It just doesn’t really bother me at all.

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3rd baby on the way here also and I've been asked "jokingly " are you sure there is only one baby in there? 🙄🙄 Yea I'm about over it too. All of it LoL! It gets annoying you know? I'm 28weeks and I will continue to grow. I feel ya

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I wouldn't feel offended, I'd just be like "what do you expect with a third baby?" Some people are ignorant but I don't believe they say it to hurt or offend you - They are just fascinated and are blown away it and comments like that are just things they say so you know they're agknowledging you.
I'm dreading my bump this time. I was showing at 8 weeks with my second and he isn't 1 yet - I have a feeling I'm gonna be showing early again!

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I’m on my third and I’m huge for 32 weeks, I’ve been huge the whole pregnancy. Family, friends, co-workers everyone has commented and still does. Patients do too lol. My one co-worker does almost every day! I’m super chill though and do not get offended easily as all if ever. Also I am huge ! There is no denying that so 🤷🏼‍♀️ . I love being big and getting commented on it though it just means my little bean is growing and thriving ❤️

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