My doctors office calls me his wife, and him my husband. His sister calls me her sister in law and her kids I’m now their titi. His brother in law calls me his wife when talking to people. Most of the people in his family call me his wife. It’s a warming feeling, and I have this inkling that we will get married eventually. We have one baby on the way and we have a joint account, and we’re starting to share our bills. 🥰