Me and my husband have been having marital problems for over a year now, we have two small children together. lately he’s been getting more controlling in my opinion. Some examples are telling where and what I’m allowed to get tattooed ( I love tattoos ) , telling me what I can’t wear. And the other day told me that I’m working out too much and look “buff” and “that’s not sexy, or attractive “ and then he forbid me from building a 6 pack. It’s just getting to the point that it’s making me feel like he views me as “his possession” . Idk anymore 😥