So my fiancé guilted me into anal yesterday (tmi) and said he’d take a shower and have actual sex with me later. I’m ovulating today, this is the first cycle I’ve ovulated in a while. He didn’t take a shower, and instead watched tv with his brothers ALL. NIGHT. He comes into our room at 4 am, pissed that I’m sleeping and takes a shower. He storms out, slams the door and then sleeps on the couch. Not to mention, he woke me up before all of this but didn’t say a word to me. He told me today when I talked about it with him that “obviously” I’M the one who doesn’t want to get pregnant, because I was asleep at 4am, and didn’t wait for him all night to get his shit together.