Orgasms..

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jasey

So I masturbate regularly and 100% always orgasm, through clit stimulation since I am not able to reach a orgasm of any kind during penetration wether it be through sex or masturbation. When I masturbate the most exciting and enjoyable moment for me is the build up to the orgasm. Recently the last 3 times I've masturbated mixing between fingers and vibrator I have reached a orgasm but I don't experience any build up and somewhat can't even fell it happening? Idk if its because i just started my period and maybe my body is just not into it or if its another reason. I have never had this problem before so I feel a bit discouraged.. does anyone have any tips or any clue why this is happening?

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Kr

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What you are experiencing is normal. Your pleasure organ is your clitoris. It have over 8,000 nerve endings just in the little glans head you can feel and see. It is the most sensitive organ anywhere on the human body. Your clitoris has only one job - sexual pleasure leading to orgasm.Your vagina is for making and delivering babies, and to let out menstrual flow. It is largely without many nerve endings to protect you from trauma during child birth, menstruation, infections and penetration.When you are having sex, you need to also stimulate your clitoris while he is inside you. You can do this in a number of ways. Rubbing with your or his fingers, using a small clitoral vibrator, or making sure you grind and rub your clitoris on his body when he is fully inside you. The easiest way for any of this is with you on top riding him. It may all feel weird and unnatural in the beginning, but it will soon become natural.Hormonal fluctuations during your cycle can definitely change your experience of orgasms. For me, the best moment is just before I orgasm, when I experience an intense “sparkling” in my clitoris before it rapidly shoots to all corners of my body in contractions of tingling, heat and pleasure.