I am only 4 weeks & 2 days. I've told my husband from the beginning of us trying my dad and dad's side of the family will not know when I'm pregnant or be invited to anything do with our kid or future kids. Now that I'm pregnant it's really hitting hard. I hate not telling, and hormones are REAL right now.

My dad and that side has not been in my life hardly any. I haven't seen my dad in over a year. I have a sister with the same dad but not the same mom, we are really close and my dad raised her. When she was pregnant he never came to see her. Her baby is almost a year old and has only seen him a handful of times..

Am i wrong for not wanting my kids around them if they wasn't even in my life?

Y'all can be honest because I'm on the edge about this!