Alright girls, this will hopefully not be too long. So my boyfriend came over tonight and asked me once again if I’d ever send nudes. I don’t do it- and I won’t do it in the future. I’ve been screwed in the past and I’m not comfortable with it, period. I told him from the beginning I would not be sending him pictures and he stayed with me thus far. So tonight when he brought it up again, asking if I ever would, I obviously said no. To that, he replied “guess I’ll just add one of the Snapchat girls.” Verbatim, that’s what he said. Like a cause and effect thing...I was shocked. I don’t have any social media by choice, so I’m not totally sure what that entails. But I’ve heard it’s more interactive than porn. And maybe you pay for it?? Not totally sure, but anyway, I know enough to feel disrespected by it. I’m fine with porn, in fact I’d encourage it since I don’t send nudes. It’s no problem in my mind. But I feel like the Snapchat girl thing is a bit weird. Why does he feel comfortable coercing me into doing it by threatening that, and most importantly, why would it even be a possibility?

I’m essentially asking two things:

1. Would you break up over this or am I exaggerating?

2. What the fuck even is this snapchat girl thing, what would that be?

I sound naive, I know. But I choose to opt out of social media and because of that, I kinda live under a rock😂

Thanks!