I don't feel any type of way about it but I guess I do sometimes feel judged sitting in an office by myself my husband started a new job in February so taking off for doctor's appointment isn't exactly in the cards for him this is our third baby so he kind of knows what's happening at the doctor's appointment and of course we'll try to make it to any important ones that we have I just don't like the feeling of feeling judged that I'm sitting there by myself at every appointment.