So, my daughter first birthday will be in December. Her great aunt and her boyfriend want to go. But they are really bad on drugs and thieves and do not care who they steal from. Would it be rude if I didn’t want them to go? I don’t allow them around my daughter that much any other time, only time they are around her is if it’s unexpected. I’m worried they will ruin her birthday or even steal her gifts and sell them. Or do drugs while there and get the cops called and it escalate from there. What should I do?