Pulling the cat's tail

Kaila

We have a 4yr old tabby that loves our daughter most days but sometimes she pulls her tail. She gets angry when the cat gets angry with her and seats at her. I mostly let her learn the consequences of her actions, but she doesn't seem to understand, or care, rather, that pulling the cats tail will most likely get her scratched.

If it helps, she's also developmentally delayed, closer to that of am 18 month old.