So anxious for IVF

Anyone go through IVF that can talk me off the ledge? I’m just waiting for my cycle to start and I’m freaking out. I’m suddenly terrified. Mostly of retrieval and the days after 😭 I’m just so scared I’m going to be in pain and unable to care for our 3yo. I have done follistim with IUIs and trigger before so I’m not worried so much about stimming as much about after.