So anxious for IVF

Anyone go through <a href="">IVF</a> that can talk me off the ledge? I’m just waiting for my cycle to start and I’m freaking out. I’m suddenly terrified. Mostly of retrieval and the days after 😭 I’m just so scared I’m going to be in pain and unable to care for our 3yo. I have done follistim with IUIs and trigger before so I’m not worried so much about stimming as much about after.