So I made a list of reasons I get frustrated with my husband and good reasons to be with him. I don’t feel like these are normal feelings in a marriage. Thoughts?

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Actually I think most of the cons are things you can communicate on and work through. If you still love him, you guys have fun together and share same goals....well that’s half the the battle in life right there. Marriage is WORK. If it’s not then your prob not doing it right. I def don’t think you should def work through it

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Marriage is a lot of work and these things on the list are very normal marriage problems. If you love him, you can work through them..

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There’s a theme through your con list, and it’s that he makes you feel bad about yourself. I hope you can worth with a therapist and show him this list in time. It’s not fair to you to be treated poorly.

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I’m not married so I don’t fully understand but I just feel as if the pros should outweigh the cons. I feel like maybe have him make a list as well and take those lists to counseling

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Marriage is hard work from what I heard. Talk to him and see if he’s willing to work on things... if not and that’s just how he is then I personally wouldn’t stay with him. If you’re not happy then leave. Trying to change him may not work... why change him when you can find someone whom you are actually compatible with and who doesn’t have to change for you?

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Have you told him the way you are feeling without blaming things on each other?

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Marriage counseling.

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Go to consouling, if he isnt willing to listen and make some changes then you will have your answer.

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Notice how your reasons not to be with him is longer than you’re reasons to be with him? Doesn’t sound like you guys are on the same page. I’m not saying you should leave him but based off of your list here you guys could use some work

So I made a list of reasons I get frustrated with my husband and good reasons to be with him. I don’t feel like these are normal feelings in a marriage. Thoughts?

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