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Ok si my husband gets mad if I talk to him after he says goodnight and also he doesn’t like me telling him the same things I already did ... like when we have an argument we talk about it and after sometimes I talk about it again, and he gets frustrated..... is he right to get mad ?

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Talking about it again is kinda like beating a dead horse. Talk about it and move on. As for the goodnight thing, no, he shouldn’t be mad. But, he’s your husband, this shouldn’t be about who’s right who’s wrong. It should be about bettering your relationship.

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Well, if he is trying to sleep and you keep talking...I can see how that would be annoying especially if he has told you that before. Also...if you have an argument, get it all out the first time. Don't keep bringing the same things up over and over. I would be irritated if my husband did those things to me as well 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Yeah i dont want to be talked to once I say good night either. As for the other topic do you repeat or bring up something again because it hasn't been resolved or no change in what you originally talked about?

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I would be irritated as well. 
Thankfully I wear earplugs so I’ll say good night and then say “ok I’m putting in my ear plugs baby” so he knows not to talk to me anymore— bc sometimes my husband does that too 😂.
It’s annoying to me.

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Mad? No. Irritated/annoyed, yes.

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It depends. Do you bring the same thing up over your arguments because he went back on whatever the compromise was? Is the topic something you're insecure about and need to talk about sometimes? If so, I don't think he should get mad. If you're just bringing the same topic up because you don't want to let it go, then I can see why he's mad. When he says goodnight and you have talked to him afterwards, was it over something important like needing to talk about something that is bothering you emotionally, etc? If so, he shouldn't be mad. If you just want to talk about small things, then I can see why he's frustrated if you talk to him after he says goodnight.

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