I need to vent BD is an Asshole7
I'm 27.
Currently 33w pregnant with my secong child(a girl)
I have a 6yr old boy.
I was in a relationship for 1yr 6months and I recently moved back with my parents.
YES I KNOW I GOT PREGNANT TOO SOON.
It was planned though.
Every thing in ou relationship was so intense we fell in love so fast. But unfortunately we fell apart.
Trying to do our best at being there for each other.
But...
Friday our car (he pays but its in our name. Helped a little in car payments)HE DIDNT WANT ME TO REMOVE MY NAME BECAUSE HE SAID ITS OUR CAR EVEN THO I DONT DRIVE AND HE SAID IF ANYTHING THT CAR WILL BE FOR OUR DAUGHTER was towed after he went to a party so he asked me to go get it since he had went to work i get the car and i notice a purse in te back seat from this girl from his soccer team that i always had a weird feeling about. I sent a pic of the purse and i went off on him why u got bitches in out car. After hearing some bs story about how he was with the people from the game and she left it there and blah blah i let it go.
Than yesterday morning we texted each other normal and out of the blue he says
You ruined my life dont call or text me anymore.
I was shocked.
After about 1hr trying to get him to come over and talk like adults he did.
I didnt understand why he said that.
Then he tells me. I ruined his life because he accidentally sent the picture of the purse to the soccer group chat and she got mad and owrried sying she dont want any problems with and and blah blah so i siad wtf u going to be mad at me becuase of that... Anywyas so we talked and we worked things out.
Then today i posted a sad face cause i been thinming about everything and it has me chocked up.
And he texted me
Whats up?
I didnt write back
1hr later he says
So why u said the other day the car was urs too?
After 10mins. I called him. And said well becuase its in my name and u always say its my car too
He says you can remove your name when im done paying.
We hang up im chocked uo so much o say and i finally did.
I told him i been thinmong about evrything u said last night and since ur friendship with some girl you met 3months ago is more important than everything we been thur and all for u to turn to me and say dont text or ok than ok fine but from now on dont aske me for shit.
Good luck with ur nee friendship ill be happy woth my kids.
And just like that IM DONE.
he viwed the message but didnt write back.
And in the morning im calling my insurance company and geting my name off. But unfortu3 for him that means the bill will be higher since he is younger i cant remove my name from the car now because i would have to travel 11hrs by car to do so. And i cant do that now. But i will soon.
UPDATE ####
he just texted me saying sorry i was drinking and all this bs.
I said i have nothing to say after yesterdy im done im calling tomorrow to get my name off of the car.
I will leave u alone its better so i dont ruin your life anymore
After what u said got my thinking when the baby comes you will probably put her aside for some girl or so party. I think you need help you cant make up your mind . andHe said
Dont do that dont take off your name im sorry. I will be there for her. Shes my daughter too
Im sick i need help
Dont do this.
(I think he needs time to work on himself befoe he can be a father or get into any relationship
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