My husband when we argue he WAS saying divorce I asked him to stop he said I won’t say that anymore

Now?

It’s I cant do this with you anymore

Or

You’re pushing me to the edge of leaving you

Now I ask him a question boom instant anger we argue than I hear those words.

He claims he loves me and we are soul mates

Than I question our relationship and he says well I’m here aren’t I? If I didn’t wanna be here I wouldn’t be.

I served him divorce papers he didn’t sign he doesn’t want one I only did as I thought he did

This has been new ongoing for 6 months

We argue maybe 1-2 times a week

Does not last long less than an hour about whatever

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So is it justifiable in an argument to tell your spouse those words of leaving them?

We are in marriage counseling too