So today I had my baby and I was pushing for a little while and it was getting hard and I was looking at my mom to reassure me and the midwife yelled “quit looking at your mom and acting like everything is about you, this is about your baby not you” honestly it kinda hurt my feeling because pushing out a baby is hard. Just had to vent .

And baby girl weighed in at 8lbs 3 oz and 20 inches long and I only needed 2 little stitches