You dont realize how fast it happens until you realize....

I'm turning 35 in 9 days. The number doesnt bother me so much as finally studying myself in the mirror. When did I get these creases in my face that arent wrinkles? When did I get THOSE wrinkles? How long have those been there? What's that dark spot? A freckle...no an age spot. Did I get hit in the eyes? Why are they so damn dark underneath them??I've been so consumed the last year with stress and a failing marriage/custody battle that I've not really gave any mind to my appearance. I'm looking OLD. I FEEL OLD. I swear it snuck up on me. I was just babyface and carefree 6 years ago. Lol