how to orgasm better

i’ve always been okay at orgasming by myself 😉

but whenever i’m with a guy, even one i really like, and even when i’m super turned on. keep in mind, i’m young, i’m a virgin. i think i’m crap at blowjobs, but being fingered or eaten out just doesn’t seem to make me orgasm, no matter the setting. kissing seems to make me wettest, and i don’t really peak higher than that. what can i do in the moment, or ask my man to do, to make me orgasm ?