Does it ever stop hurting😔

Question

Today I should be 13 weeks, tomorrow is my birthday. I lost my baby at 5/6 weeks, I should be excitedly announcing my pregnancy on my birthday but here I am grieving my baby on my birthday 😭 I don’t feel like I have a purpose in life without my baby, what do I do? How do I carry on? I’m so lost and broken 💔

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First of all, I’m so terribly sorry to learn of your loss. ❤️I have lost two myself and found personally that experiencing milestone dates is particularity hard. I’m so sorry that your birthday isn’t as you imagined it. 
I should have a 9month old or a 2week old baby right now, but the powers that be had other plans for me. I would love to tell you that the pain completely goes away, but personally I have found that a little part of my heart belongs to those two little darlings that went to heaven before I got to meet them. 
All of that being said, I have found many things to be thankful for through all of this. My other half of almost five years has stood bravely by my side through all of this, which has made us stronger than ever. I have also been able to connect with so many other brave women who are experiencing something similar, which has educated me so much. I have been forced to practise patience (something I’m not so good at) which has allowed me to look around and appreciate at thing fabulous thing that I DO have. Lastly, it has boosted my confidence in myself SO VERY MUCH. After having a miscarriage, I picked myself up, dusted myself off and am stronger than ever. Nothing seems too hard to deal with because I’ve already been through one of the hardest things a person can experience. That little pain in my heart drives me to achieve great things. I’ve got this AND SO DO YOU!❤️
Hold those who love you close, talk to people about how you’re feeling and remember that you ARE NOT ALONE in this. We are going to get through it, and our rainbows are coming ❤️🌈 There is so much to be excited for. Take the time you need to heal. You are strong and brave and have a lot of wonderful times to look forward to! 
xox

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I should be 23 weeks pregnant right now. I just try to think there is a reason behind all this. & I will be blessed with an amazing Rainbow baby soon enough. 🌈 👼🏻 
I miscarried at 11 weeks, it was a missed miscarriage so the heartbeat just stopped for whatever reason a few days after I heard it.
Hopefully , everything happens for a reason. 
Baby dust to all.

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I’m so sorry. I just don’t know. Every time I think I’m ok, somebody announces a pregnancy or something like that I end up low again.

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I'm so so sorry for your loss. I have had 2 losses both at around 5-6 weeks. It's hard. I honestly had to delete the pregnancy stuff from my apps cuz seeing those milestones was too difficult for me. Allow yourself to grieve. Give yourself time. Its get easier, but I can't say it ever fully goes away. Do you have someone who you can talk to about your feelings? A significant other? Even speaking to a therapist about your loss may be helpful. I hope you are able to find even the smallest bit of peace mama.

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And today is the day I should be finding out the gender of my baby around this week.I lost my baby in March. Trust me its hard. I've been trying since and I get very stressed out thinking it's me. Just pray girl everything happens for a godly reason  remember just know your baby is your little angel watching over you now. 
Look I'm with my sister right now supporting her through labor right now at the hospital lol 👶👏❤ about to give birth any time now

Does it ever stop hurting😔

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