My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years and we’ve never had sex. Yes, we choose not to have sex, because we want the privacy to do so when we get our own place this year, and we want to respect his parents because we think getting naked on a couch in a basement isn’t very appropriate. Yes, I’m still active with him, just not in that way.

Whenever someone asks about my relationship, they always say “have you had sex?” When I tell them I’m a Virgin, they flip out and say “god, both of you must be sexually frustrated. I could never!” Sorry to break it to you, but sex isn’t a big thing in our relationship. We satisfy each other, and neither of us are sexually frustrated. You also have no business asking how. Keep your comments and questions to yourself and stop trying to push sex on a couple by giving us condoms and lube. We will have sex when we are in the privacy of our own apartment WITHOUT telling anyone it happened. What we do in the bedroom is nobody’s business but ours 🙄😒