I need some advice.. when my first was born, my mil invited their whole entire family over(aunts, uncles, cousins, ect.) to mine and my husbands house the day after we got home from the hospital for the whole day WITHOUT letting me know. I was FURIOUS... My husband has said that he’s told her that we aren’t doing that with this baby, but im afraid he’s just telling me that and didn’t actually tell her. How do I bring it up or mention it to her that I DO NOT want a house full of people that soon after giving birth? I really want to be a nice as possible, but I want to get my point across. My mil tends to not listen and do whatever she wants anyway😑