My wife an I have been on our TTC journey off and on now for about 2 years, we have found the perfect donor a few months ago, problem is I am choosing to go back to school for a program that “should” take about 13 months to complete. It is a very tough program and is very active. My wife is worried that if we get pregnant during my courses I won’t be able to continue and we will be stuck paying back 30k for nothing. I just don’t know what to do, a part of me wants to wait until I’m done with the course so I know I have every advantage of succeeding but I’m also so worried our donor won’t be willing to wait! Any advice would be super helpful. My wife carrying isn’t currently an option. Thank you.