head confused (pls help)

paige

we make out and then he says he needs head first before we do or he won’t get hard , so i do but i never know if it’s good i mean i usually don’t use my hand i just use my mouth besides the hand holding it and then like he stops me saying okay he’s good and then he puts on a condom and we go, i’m just confused if like i’m not giving good head or he’s just doing that to like idk