Am I rude?

Ok so...... my man was like yeah girl I was like slap that ass king and was like I'm bout to eat that I'm like ooh shit...... so uh he likes to eat the cat.... I love it dont get me wrong but.... why do he eat the cat with too much pressure on the clit? Like. It hurts and makes me want to slap him off of me lls. I feel so bad bc he be IN TO IT!!! and he be so damn ready to f.it uuup..... but then I be like okay stop. I didnt mean to slap his head but it started to get on my nerves smh. It was going good for some parts but then he just idk I dont eat so Idk wtf he is doing but damn. Lls. Should i teach him how i like it? Or is that too much to ask for idk what to do y'all. Help me smh. I love my King so much but he gets too excited!