Would you go back?
I'm in such a difficult situation. I went to the doctor for some issues and he insisted on testing me for STDs even though I was in a stable relationship and I was clear before I met him. When I got the test back it said I was positive for chlamydia. I freaked out. I haven't cheated. I'm very sure he hasn't either. I came home and told my boyfriend. He was very upset. He got tested as well and his came back negative (He showed me his results). He was heartbroken and accused me of cheating, and broke up. Of course. He had it on paper. What else could he think. I don't blame him. I went back to my doctors office and demanded to be tested again. There's no way I could have it when neither of us have been with someone else during our years together. I know he was clear before as well.
Well, I got the new results back and it said it was negative, so I didn't even have it! They made some kind of unbelievable mistake. I sent the results to my now ex boyfriend and told him that they had made a mistake. That I would never cheat on him. I don't know what response I expected. I just didn't want him to think i cheated on him, even if we were broken up. We were both confused. Like how could they even get a test wrong? We've been texting still for about a month and now he's asking if we can try again.
I'm still feeling heartbroken and upset. I get that he broke up with me, I would have done the same. But it's so hard having been accused of cheating, that he thought that I did that, even if I understand it. He says it's hard too, to get over the shock. We both still love each other. I've been missing him and thinking about him all the time.
Would you try again or would you try to get over it? If we were to get back together it would obviously be a long and slow process and we're both okay with that. But do you think we're doomed now or can we be something great again? Our relationship before was great, had no issues really so this came as such a hard blow.
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