Hi guys. I think I might leave this app.

A little backstory:

I am adopted and my birth mom was addicted to meth when I was born so as a result, I am infertile and have sever endometriosis. This means I cannot concieve.

As an infertile woman and and adoptee, I am so very tired of women on this page dismissing adoption and a worst case scenario, as an option for only peiple who want adoption childern not those who cannot concieve, or as an insult. It really makes me feel like my existance is instulting or the easy way out. It makes me feel like a last result. It makes my adoptee friends feel like less of a person because our conceptions werent meticulously planned and posted about every 30 minutes. It make us feel like nobody was excited to have us, and that just because we werent planned or posted about or people wetent excited for us to be born, we are less than.

I understand that for many women, including myself, having a baby naturaly is something we really want and need. But that doesnt make my existance, or the existance of millions of adoptees and orphans in the US alone, not an option. If you really want a child, human life, is an option. Regardless of who the baby is, all babies deserve a home. I mean no harm by this and Im not trying to say that TTC is anything less than amazing and its what I want to. I would just hope that more people would be open to adoption as more than a last resort.

Thank you :)