Why am i never enough?

Question

My entire life I was always second choice. No matter if it was friends or guys they always picked someone over me. I’ve gotten cheated on in every single relationship ive been in. I’ve had best friends leave me for other people. It doesn’t make sense bc I’ve had people tell me how nice I am and how I’m such a good person but why won’t anyone stay?

Answer

Trust me everything happens for a good reason. They’re just not the right people for you n god is removing them away I had one best friend knew her for 9 years but she found other friends n left me I was hurt but knew later on that it was for my own good. Things like this happen a lot n we’re not alone slot of people experience such things..  the important thing is that we shouldn’t build our happiness on other people b lower our expectations.. trust me if they’re  good for god won’t remove them away from your life n remember god is the most merciful even more than our parents when you think of it this way you’ll understand that each good or bad thing happens for a good reason either to teach you or to test you.. look around you everyone of us have different kind of problems but we just don’t show them n the same time we think that other ppl are happier than us but that’s wrong the key is to see whose in a worse situation than us n thank god for the blessings we have n focus on changing ourselves to the best version we want to be n ignore all the negatives.. the people who you really deserve will come your way don’t worry about that.. sorry for the long reply ❤️

Answer

I feel the exact same way hon. It’s incredibly painful to feel like you don’t matter to anyone. It feels like everyone around you has a person super close to and can tell anything to and to not have that makes you feel like an outcast. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this too but know you’re not the only one. There’s always someone you can talk to and be around. Reach out. Try to make friends. I know it feels like you’ve been doing that forever and it never works but it will. I promise. Sometimes relationships and friendships take time. As for the cheating, fuck those guys/girls. You are enough for someone out there and you just haven’t found them yet. You will though.

Why am i never enough?

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