So I grew up going to church and I am Christian. I did premarital sex whoch isnt right but I did and I am pregnant. Me and my sins are between me and God. Me and my boyfriend are excited. We had sex and are now expecting one of the greatest gifts God could give us. My mom and grandma on the other hand were talking about how people are having babies before they are married and seem very judgemental about it. I havent told my family yet. My boyfriends dad was so happy he cried. My mom will bring up every reason why I shouldnt be having a baby. My dad will side with her because its his wife. No my life isnt working out perfectly how she wants it to but it isnt her life. My heart just shattered today hearing her talk about babies before marriage because I want to tell her and have her be excited but i know she wont. I love her and am very close with her but its heart breaking knowing she wont be excited for me and will bring up eclverythong wrong with our situation. We are both working full time. I technically have 2 jobs because I am military. We have our own place amd pay all of our own bills except that Im still on my parents phone plan. I want to tell my dad but I cant make him keep a secret from my mom like that. I dont know what to do.