Hey girls/people who have their periods!

So literally like last week I decided I wanted a baby and I told my fiancé that (my fiancé is a TransMan) so we sent out a couple messages and I found a donor to help me conceive.

So what are some good tips to become pregnant? What are things I should look for? How many times should I be having sex with the donor to make sure I am getting the best chance?

I have gone and had some nights with our donor so we can start trying. But then I started my period. It was supppper light. Like I never have periods like that. Mine have always been super heavy and terrible. I am going to wait another two weeks and have some more nights with the donor so I can make sure I am getting what I need. Has anyone on here used a donor and if you have what do you think works better? Did you use a turkey baster or a special kit?

I am so lost and idk if I am doing anything right at all.