My boyfriend doesn’t have sex with me

I think we just have very different libidos but it’s taking a toll on my confidence I hate to admit I would never cheat on him but sometimes I go to bars just so someone would flirt with me and get me excited. We have great chemistry we flirt a lot he’s supportive and literally everything I want.

I brought it up to him before that I’m a hornier person than him and that I wish we had sex more but he just laughed it off. I would rather not explain to him how I feel because it’s embarrassing to me and I don’t want him too have sex with me bc he feels like he has to.

He compliments me all the time and I’m defs his type his ex looked a lot like me sad to say lol. Is there anything I can do to fix this? I’m a pretty healthy looking person I take care of myself shave a lot lol (always tryna stay ready for the next time). But we have sec like maybe twice a month but we see each other like 6 times a week

(What would u do in my situation and don’t say leave him because in my situation you actually love him and he’s not just a guy ur reading about)