Porn Opinions for your SO

Okay so my boyfriend watches porn and I feel like I should be okay with it but when I think about I get sick to my stomach. I really don’t want to feel this way so I’ve not spoken to him about it. Should I?

Does anyone else feel this way with their SOs? Or have any tips on how I can be okay with it?

I did used to watch porn occasionally but I haven’t in the last 3/4 years. I guess I just don’t like the thought of him getting off to another girl? I know this probably all sounds silly but I just makes me feel physically ill and I don’t know how to change it.

Oh and for anyone wanting to know, we’ve been together over 2 years now and are both about to turn 20, don’t think that changes much about the post but just in case you were interested 😂

Edit : @kim @kaitlin

Thank you so much! Ngl I was kinda worried I would get the “controlling/insecure” comments, you’ve really lifted a weight off there.

I don’t think it would ever be a deal breaker, I’ve put in too much time and love him too much now 😜 not something I thought about mentioning when we started going out annoyingly, at the time I just thought I’d get past the way I felt

I think I’ll definitely talk to him about it soon

I am also worried that it will just make him watch it but keep it a secret from me? I think I’ll add in that I’d rather know even if he is?

Edit #2 : thanks so much for your reply Emily!

Edit #3 : thank you Karla! I definitely think it’s healthier too. Wow! I don’t know if I could stand my ground to the point of leaving but I’ll try do as much as I can 😂